Like what’s up danger?

If I’m crazy, I’m on my own, If I’m waitin’, it’s on my throne, If I sound lazy, just ignore my tone, Cause I’m always gonna answer when you call my phone…like what’s up danger?

Why our kids need boredom

We’re so over-scheduled as families that our kids no longer have time to be bored. This could produce a generation of kids who don’t know how to creatively solve their own problems or use their imaginations.

Present over perfect

The mountains really are my happy place. Meanwhile, you know it’s vacation when the baby is roaming semi-naked through the house. #presentoverperfect

The power of friendship

Since we were 17 we’ve lived our lives by this motto: FHP (faith, hard-work, and patience). Now look how it’s paying off. #threekings #fhp

Minding the gap in marriage

Minding the gap between who you are and where you want to be, that’s the difference maker in any relationship.

The day you were born

Happy Birthday baby girl. You’ve been an exceptional addition to the tribe! #Wakefieldblackgirlmagic

Is this my life?

I’ve spent most of my life trying to plan it. I’ve learned the hard way that it doesn’t matter how life works out, it just matters that life works. So, yeah, this is my life and I love it for all the predictably unpredictable moving parts of it.

Getting back in sync

Here’s what I’ve learned about managing chronic illness: it never happens at a convenient time. Yet, we can’t let it define us. Instead, let’s allow our struggles to refine us.

Seas the day

Now I know that the best thing I can offer to this world is not my force or energy, but a well-tended spirit, a wise and brave soul- Shauna Neiquist

My RC Cola

To my brilliant daughter Riley, who first made me a father. Happy Birthday RC Cola.